Uncommen: Man To Man

Mission At Uncommen, we hold a core belief: every man has within him the makings of a remarkable husband, father, and leader. Yet, we know that life doesn't always make these roles easy to navigate. The path is often riddled with challenges, from battling personal demons like addiction, financial stress, and health issues to facing everyday hurdles in family dynamics, self-confidence, and defining success. Our mission is to offer a beacon of support—an Uncommen solution—to guide men toward facing these trials and triumphing over them, fostering positive change in their families, communities, and beyond. Our purpose is to encourage and challenge men to unlock their inherent potential and step into the roles they were destined to fill. By embracing a life centered around Christ's teachings and God's design for manhood, we believe every man can navigate his struggles and reach his aspirations while honoring God. Through the wisdom of scripture and the example set by Jesus, we offer direction and support. We recognize that each man is crafted with a distinct set of talents and a unique calling. We aim to help men identify, pursue, and passionately fulfill this calling. To support this journey, Uncommen delivers a wealth of resources—weekly blog posts, original content, workbooks, and small group materials- available on our website and through the Bible App. We intend to arm men with practical advice and insights, aiding their growth in all facets of life. We're committed to empowering men to become who God intended and always seek individuals aligned with our ethos. Whether through prayer, financial contributions, volunteering writing and grant writing skills, or offering professional fundraising expertise, there's a role for everyone in this endeavor. We invite you to join us on this transformative journey, helping men realize their fullest potential everywhere.



Unintended Discipleship

Sat, 08 Feb 2025 11:00:53 +0000

 Who or What Is Shaping You? Scripture Focus: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” – Romans 12:2 Discipleship in the Everyday Whether we realize it or not, the world disciplines us daily. From the shows we binge-watch to the conversations we have, the influences around us shape how we think, what we value, and how we act. But here’s the challenge: are these influences disciplining us toward Christ or away from Him? Let’s look deeper at four major areas where unintended discipleship happens and ask ourselves, are we being shaped by culture or Scripture?     Movies: The Stories We Absorb “How storytelling impacts our moral compass.” Movies are powerful tools of influence. They’re not just entertainment; they shape our views of morality, relationships, and priorities. Think about the subtle (and not-so-subtle) messaging in modern films. Whether it’s normalized themes of materialism, sexuality, or even direct shots at Christianity, what we consume often challenges our values. Uncommen Reflection: What themes dominate the movies you watch? Are they encouraging your […]

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Danger Close

Sat, 25 Jan 2025 13:00:06 +0000

   Recognizing Spiritual Danger Before It’s Too Late Scripture Focus: “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.” – Proverbs 14:12 Living Dangerously Close Life is full of near misses. Whether narrowly avoiding an accident or stepping away from risky choices just in time, we all encounter moments where the line between safety and disaster is razor-thin. In 2022, there were over 227,000 unintentional deaths in the United States alone. (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) These included causes like falls, motor vehicle accidents, and poisoning. Each of these fatalities began with a decision—sometimes a seemingly minor one—that had fatal consequences. The same principle applies spiritually. While we might not always recognize it, our choices can bring us dangerously close to spiritual ruin. Proverbs 14:12 warns us that what feels right at the moment can often lead to destruction. Let’s look at two stories of men in the Bible who found themselves closer to disaster than they realized: David and Samson.     David’s Decision Around Bathsheba Focus Scripture: 2 Samuel 11:1-4 “In the spring, at the time when kings go off to war, David sent Joab out with […]

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A New Year, A New Charge

Sat, 11 Jan 2025 11:00:47 +0000

 Leading Well: A New Year’s Charge for Husbands, Fathers, and Leaders In this episode of the Man-to-Man Podcast, “A New Year, A New Change,” we explore what it means to lead with purpose as husbands, fathers, and leaders. Starting a new year often brings resolutions and goals, but authentic leadership demands more than intentions—it calls for humility, vision, and faith. Using Jesus’s example, this episode discusses servant leadership and practical ways to apply a new change at home, in the workplace, and within the community. Foundations of Servant Leadership Leadership modeled by Jesus contrasts the world’s view of power. As described in Matthew 20:26-28, greatness comes through serving others. At home, this begins with being present and intentional in the lives of your spouse and children. Leadership is not about perfection; it’s about consistently striving to lead with humility and purpose. Reflection: Jesus was hands-on with His disciples, leading by example. Are you present with your family in the same way? Think about how you can prioritize their spiritual and emotional needs this year. Lesson: Servant leadership starts at home. Whether initiating family prayer time or leading by example in your actions, every step builds trust and connection. Ephesians […]

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Happy New Year…… Now What?

Sat, 28 Dec 2024 11:00:44 +0000

 Finding Direction When the Future Feels Unclear The dawn of a new year often brings a mix of hope and hesitation. While some dive headfirst into resolutions, others find themselves wondering what to plan for when the future seems so uncertain. In this episode of the Man-to-Man Podcast, “Finding Direction When the Future Feels Unclear,” we explore how to embrace uncertainty and find purpose in the unknown. Embracing the Season of Uncertainty Uncertainty is not the time to stand still; it is a time to lean on God. When the future feels unclear, trust that God is using this season to teach you something deeper. Reflection Life throws curveballs, as seen in the personal story shared during the podcast: a career disrupted by Hurricane Katrina led to the creation of Studio490. What seemed like chaos became the path to a greater calling. Trusting God in uncertainty opens the door for transformation. Lesson Psalm 37:5 reminds us, “Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him, and he will act.” Trusting God does not mean having all the answers—it means relying on His plan, even when you can’t see it. Challenge Take time this week to pray and commit your […]

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Tis The Busy Season

Sat, 14 Dec 2024 13:00:50 +0000

Finding Peace During the Busy Season Welcome to another episode of the Mna-to-Man Podcast, “’Tis The Busy Season.” With the holiday rush upon us, this episode explores how we can find peace amidst the busyness of December. We’ll discuss practical ways to create moments of stillness, embrace rest, and stay connected to God as the true reason for the season. This is a time to slow down, reflect, and prioritize what truly matters. Embracing Stillness Amidst the Rush The holiday season can be overwhelming, with endless to-do lists, family gatherings, and last-minute shopping. In our conversation, we shared about planning family outings and Christmas light tours, which can still feel like a whirlwind. Even with fun traditions, it’s essential to find those intentional quiet moments. Key Takeaways: Prioritize Quiet Time: Taking even a few minutes each day can bring peace and clarity. Reframe the Season’s Purpose: Remember that Christmas celebrates Christ’s arrival—a moment of peace in a chaotic world. Challenge: This week, consider setting aside small moments for stillness. How might these moments help you find peace during this busy season? Scripture Reflection: Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” Finding peace means pausing and acknowledging […]

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Reconnecting Hearts In Marriage

Sat, 30 Nov 2024 13:00:20 +0000

 Reconnecting Hearts In Marriage In this episode of the Man-to-Man Podcast, Reconnecting Hearts In Marriage, we dive into the challenges that arise when couples drift apart. Whether due to differing beliefs, emotional disconnects, or life pressures, marriages often encounter seasons of distance. Some spouses are believers while others are not, and even among believers, spiritual disconnection can occur. This episode explores three essential steps to rebuild and nurture connection: Recognize, Communicate, and Unite. Let’s unpack these steps through the lens of biblical wisdom. Recognizing the Distance Marital drift is more common than many realize. Over time, life’s distractions, from careers to raising children, can create an emotional gap between spouses. Often, couples only notice the drift when the kids leave home or when routines turn into quiet co-existence. Recognizing that gap is the first step toward healing. Reflection: Uncommen receives numerous prayer requests related to marriage, especially from spouses who feel disconnected. It’s not uncommon for one partner to say, “We’re just getting by,” while the other has emotionally disengaged. Lesson: Acknowledging the disconnect allows couples to start the healing process. As Amos 3:3 reminds us, “Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Without recognition, […]

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Staying Thankful

Sat, 16 Nov 2024 13:00:47 +0000

Finding Strength in Every Season Welcome to today’s episode of our Man-to-Man podcast: Staying Thankful. In “Staying Thankful,” we explore the power of gratitude and how choosing thankfulness as a daily practice can shape our outlook on life. Strengthening our relationships and deepening our connection with God is a way to find strength in God. Gratitude isn’t just for the Thanksgiving season; it’s a way of life that grounds us in both the blessings and the challenges. Recognizing God’s Daily Blessings Gratitude starts with noticing the simple gifts God places in our path every day. Whether it’s a meaningful conversation, a peaceful moment over coffee, or the beauty of nature, small moments reveal God’s presence in our lives. A personal story shared in today’s podcast reflects this truth: the memory of a loved one who has passed and the realization that time spent with family is precious. The question is, do we recognize these blessings when we have them? Often, we only realize their value after they’re gone. Recognizing these small blessings can open us up to a life filled with thankfulness and joy. Lessons Learned: Small Blessings Matter: A simple act of kindness, a conversation, or a shared meal […]

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The Isolation Trap

Sat, 02 Nov 2024 11:00:13 +0000

  Why Doing Life Alone Isn’t God’s Plan Welcome to another episode of our Man-to-Man podcast, The Isolation Trap, where we explore the dangers of isolation and why living life alone isn’t part of God’s plan. In this episode, we discuss the impact of isolation on our mental, emotional, and spiritual health and provide practical steps to break free from the trap of loneliness. We’ll also discuss the importance of embracing community, accountability, and connection as God intended. The Dangers of Isolation The isolation trap is more than just being physically alone—it can deeply affect your mental and spiritual well-being. Men often believe that handling life’s struggles alone is a sign of strength, but this mindset can lead to loneliness and disconnection from the very support we need. Did You Know? Research from the American Psychological Association (2022) shows that social isolation is linked to a higher risk of poor mental health and even early mortality. Many men fear appearing weak by sharing their struggles, leading them further into isolation. But Genesis 2:18 tells us, “It is not good that the man should be alone.” God designed us for connection and to live in community. Lessons Learned: Isolation Breeds Weakness: […]

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Weathering the Storm

Sat, 19 Oct 2024 13:00:31 +0000

    In this episode of the Man-to-Man Podcast, Weathering the Storm, we reflect on how to face life’s unexpected challenges inspired by the recent hurricane devastation in Western North Carolina. Drawing on personal experiences, including the impact of Hurricane Katrina, we dive into four critical responses to trials: Resist, Retreat, React, and Respond. Together, we’ll explore what the Bible teaches about these choices and how faith can anchor us in the midst of storms. Facing the Unforeseen Trials Unexpected hardships can shake us to our core. Whether it’s a hurricane, the sudden loss of a loved one, or a personal crisis, trials test our faith and resilience. As we reflect on our experience as Hurricane Katrina evacuees, we share what it means to confront these challenges head-on. We also acknowledge the pain Western North Carolina residents are currently experiencing, emphasizing the importance of community support during these moments. Resist: The Temptation to Deny the Storm Ignoring or downplaying trials only prolongs the hardship. Denial keeps us stuck, making it harder to move forward. As James 1:2-3 reminds us, trials test our faith to build perseverance. Are you facing your trials honestly, or are you resisting the reality in front […]

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While the Master Is Gone

Sat, 05 Oct 2024 13:00:39 +0000

   Using Your Resources Wisely In this episode of the Uncommen Podcast, While the Master Is Gone, we dive into the parable of the tenants and explore how we can use the resources God has given us while awaiting Jesus’ return. The Bible teaches us that our resources—whether time, talents, or treasures—are not just for us to keep. We’re called to use them wisely. We discuss four key ways we interact with our resources: Hoard, Spend, Waste, and Invest. Let’s break down what each of these means for our walk with God. The Misuse of Resources We often misuse the gifts God has entrusted to us. Whether we hoard out of fear, spend recklessly, or waste our time and talents, each of these actions prevents us from fulfilling God’s purpose. Hoarding Out of Fear Hoarding comes from a place of fear and scarcity. When we hold too tightly to our resources, we’re telling God we don’t trust Him to provide. Proverbs 13:22 says, “A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.” When we hoard, we not only hinder our spiritual growth but also limit how God can […]

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Building Resilience

Sat, 21 Sep 2024 13:00:09 +0000

 Strength in Adversity Welcome, brothers, to today’s episode of the Man-to-Man podcast, “Building Resilience: Strength in Adversity.” Life throws challenges at us all, and today, we’re diving deep into what it means to be resilient—how to not just survive but thrive in the face of adversity. Let’s explore what resilience is, why it matters, and how you can build this crucial trait in your own life. Understanding Resilience Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity. It’s not just a trait some people are born with; it’s a skill that can be developed. The American Psychological Association reports that resilient individuals are more likely to maintain their mental well-being during stressful times. But what does that look like in our daily lives? Personal Story: My family and I were Hurricane Katrina evacuees. We had to leave everything behind and start over, and it took us two long years to get back to where we were before Katrina hit. Those two years taught us the true meaning of resilience—of holding on to hope and pushing forward even when everything seems lost. Lessons Learned: The Science Behind Resilience: Resilience isn’t just an inherent trait—it’s a skill that can be developed […]

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Your 10000 Words

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 11:00:48 +0000

Truth | Character Development

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Finding Purpose in the Unexpected

Sat, 17 Aug 2024 14:00:26 +0000

Compassion | Contentment

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Understanding Doubt in Faith

Sat, 03 Aug 2024 13:00:38 +0000

 Welcome, brothers, to today’s episode of the Man-to-Man podcast Understanding Doubt in Faith. We’re diving into a topic that many of us face: doubt in faith. Doubt is a natural part of our spiritual journey. Today, we’ll explore how to navigate it with wisdom and trust in God. The Doubting Husband Many husbands experience doubt when their plans don’t align with God’s timing. Whether it’s about family, money, career, house, or car, doubt can creep in. In Genesis 17:16-17, even Abraham doubted God’s promise of a son due to his and Sarah’s old age. Did You Know? Around 1 in 6 people globally experience infertility at some point in their lives (Premier Health). Personal Story: Abraham laughed at God’s promise, doubting it was possible at his age. Similarly, my wife Dana and I faced uncertainty and doubt when we struggled with our first miscarriage. Lessons Learned: Control is an Illusion: Like Abraham, we learned that our plans are secondary to God’s will. Trust in His timing is crucial. God’s Timing: We eventually had two sons, but only after surrendering our timeline to God’s greater plan. Scripture Reflection: “Abraham fell facedown; he laughed and said to himself, ‘Will a son […]

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Embracing Challenges

Sat, 20 Jul 2024 13:00:07 +0000

 Embracing Challenges Welcome, brothers, to today’s Man-to-Man podcast, Embracing Challenges, exploring how overcoming challenges can lead to personal and professional growth. Embracing obstacles can build resilience, spark creativity, and drive innovation. Let’s explore how we can turn these hurdles into stepping stones for self-improvement and success. Personal Challenges Did You Know? A study found that students who embraced a growth mindset scored 32 points higher in reading than those with a fixed mindset (OECD, 2018). Many view failure as the end rather than an opportunity for growth. This mindset can hinder personal development and resilience. Embracing Failure Failure offers insights that success often cannot. It helps us identify areas for improvement, makes us more resilient, and encourages risk-taking. By reframing failure as a stepping stone, we can develop a growth mindset that propels us forward. Stepping Out of the Comfort Zone Growth happens when we push beyond our comfort zones. Embracing new experiences and taking risks can expand our skills, knowledge, and perspectives, leading to significant personal growth. Scripture Reflection James 1:2-3: “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” For […]

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Inspiring Men to Lead with Purpose

Sat, 06 Jul 2024 13:00:49 +0000

The Genesis of Uncommen In the spirit of fostering stronger male leadership, Greg and Amanda Cash founded Uncommen. The organization aims to inspire husbands, fathers, and leaders to become the men they were always meant to be. This journey began with an app designed to challenge men in their daily lives, promoting engagement and commitment. Despite initial hurdles, Uncommen evolved into a globally recognized content delivery ministry, reaching men worldwide with its impactful message. Recommended Reads Our Man-to-Man podcast often features book recommendations that resonate deeply with our community. Currently, we are diving into: Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey: An inspiring memoir that offers wisdom on navigating life’s challenges. Doing Life with Your Adult Children by Jim Burns: A guide for parents transitioning to a new phase of parenting. Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge: Practical advice on reclaiming a balanced, fulfilling life. Balancing Life’s Demands Uncommen provides valuable guidance on balancing work, family, and personal time. Here are some key strategies: Prioritize God: Make time for spiritual growth. Spend Time in the Word: Daily Bible reading fortifies your faith. Pray for Wisdom: Seek divine guidance in all decisions. Invest in Your Family: Dedicate time to nurture familial bonds. Lead […]

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The Extroverted Spirit

Sat, 22 Jun 2024 13:00:29 +0000

Welcome, brothers, to today’s episode, where we celebrate the vibrant energy of extroverts. Understanding how extroverts communicate and energize can help us all to harness the power of active engagement in our communities and churches.

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The Introverted Mind

Sat, 08 Jun 2024 13:00:25 +0000

We explore the quiet strength and unique qualities of introversion. Understanding how introverts communicate and thrive can significantly enhance personal growth and relationships.

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Grace-Filled Seasons

Sat, 25 May 2024 13:00:56 +0000

We encounter the quiet transition to an empty nest, the joys of grandparenting, and the honor of elder care. Today’s episode of our podcast explores these significant life stages, each woven with challenges and blessings. Here, we delve into how our faith not only supports but also enriches these profound life changes.

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